It can be overwhelming when you shop for a wedding ring and seek one that complements your engagement ring. This jewelry is the first thing you put on in the morning and the last thing you take off at night — a tangible reminder of the vow that ties you together, a cherished keepsake that stays with you always. Learning how to choose the perfect wedding band can help make this vital decision easier and more enjoyable.
What is the meaning behind a wedding ring?
Dating back to ancient Egyptian times, a wedding ring is a symbol of eternal love and devotion between two people. The band is infinite, signifying commitment and fidelity without end. It is traditionally worn on the finger as a public and private reminder of the promise to be devoted and unified with one’s partner. However, some people today choose to wear the ring on a necklace. The materials and stones selected for the ring are symbolic, as well, with pure metals like gold showing purity and unbreakable diamonds signifying the permanent nature of the relationship.
On which hand or finger should you wear the wedding ring?
If you thought the wedding ring automatically goes on the ring (fourth) finger of the left hand, you’re probably from a Western country. This is the tradition in the United States, Canada, and the United Kingdom, and stems from the belief that the “vein of love” runs from this finger to the heart. But other countries, such as Greece, Spain, and Russia, wear the wedding ring on the fourth finger of the right hand. In these cultures, the right hand is considered the “pure” hand. Ultimately, where you wear your ring is your choice and depends on your comfort and style preferences.
Things to consider when choosing wedding rings
Navigating your options can be stressful, especially with so many styles available. Here at Valerie Madison, we understand that it can seem overwhelming to choose a band that perfectly enhances the beauty of your engagement ring. That’s why our experts have put together this guide to help you choose a band that will enhance the beauty of your engagement ring.
Consider Your Lifestyle
When choosing a wedding band, Start by considering how your jewelry will fit into your daily life. Are you an active person or someone who frequently works with their hands? If so, a durable, low-maintenance band could be the perfect wedding ring for you. Plain or contour wedding bands without gemstones are less prone to damage and require minimal cleaning, making them ideal for busy lifestyles.
If your routine is more laid-back, you might opt for diamond wedding bands or intricate designs with more detail. Many couples find it helpful to think about how often they'll be wearing both together and if they'll be comfortable during various activities.
For example, try wearing two rings for a few hours to get a feel for how they fit into your day-to-day life. Do you prefer the look and feel of one over the other? Keep doing this with all your favorite options until you get down to the right band that will sit flush with your engagement ring.
Overall Aesthetic
Next, think about the look you’re aiming to create. Do you want a feminine wedding band that blends seamlessly with your engagement ring, or would you prefer a bit of contrast? There are no strict rules here. A popular choice for many people is a ring that reflects their style. If you have an engagement ring with diamonds, pairing it with a diamond wedding band can create a cohesive, sparkling effect that draws attention to what's worn on your ring finger.
If you prefer a more understated look, opting for a plain band without gemstones can provide a classic touch. Going with a simple band can let your engagement ring’s brilliance take center stage without being overshadowed by the wedding ring. Highlighting your jewelry becomes an art form when you consider the endless design possibilities and clever styling choices. Pair your jewelry thoughtfully, making sure they match your personality and each other.
Consider the Metal Type
Choosing the metal type is another critical factor when selecting the perfect wedding ring. Matching your engagement ring with a wedding band made of the same metal, like yellow gold, can create a unified look.
For a bright white appearance, Valerie Madison’s white gold wedding rings are an excellent option. The extra nickel in the alloy gives them a naturally whiter hue.
Band Width and Shape
The width and shape of the wedding ring significantly impact its design and comfort. Thin bands are perfect for those seeking a delicate look, while wider ones create a bold statement. When it comes to the shape, think about how the band will sit alongside your engagement ring. Do you prefer a flush fit, where the wedding band aligns perfectly with the engagement ring, or do you like a slight gap between the two rings?
Notched or contoured wedding bands are designed to fit snugly around the engagement ring’s center stone for a seamless, flush fit, ensuring a cohesive appearance. If you’re open to a bit of separation, a straight band can add a touch of individuality to your set.
Gemstone Compatibility
Adding gemstones to your wedding band can increase the radiance and elegance of your bridal set. Elevate your engagement ring with a stunning diamond wedding band that radiates brilliance and adds an extra layer of brilliance. Maybe diamonds aren't quite your vibe — no problem! Other gemstones can bring that special something to your set.
Wedding Band Customization Options
Personalizing your wedding ring is a beautiful way to make it truly your own. Whether you're drawn to a gemstone's sparkle or an engraved message's emotional resonance, you can make it your own with endless possibilities. Etching a heartfelt phrase, a milestone date, or a meaningful icon on the round inner band elevates the ring from a beautiful object to a representation of your unwavering love.
For a more customized appearance, you can work with a jeweler to design a band that features unique gemstone arrangements or to match specific design elements of your engagement ring, such as incorporating similar metalwork or shapes.
How to Choose Wedding Bands for Various Engagement Ring Types
Your engagement ring's shape and style will influence the type of wedding band that works best. Here are some tips for matching various engagement ring styles with wedding bands.
Round Engagement Band
One reason the round engagement ring never goes out of style compared to other shapes is its effortless pairing with wedding bands of all kinds, from elegant to edgy. For a truly put-together ring set, opt for a round contoured band that snugs up seamlessly against the curves of your stone.
As the most versatile of all the shapes, round brilliant diamonds pair well with these bands:
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Contoured bands showcase halos and solitaires
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Bands with various textures contrast the stones
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Classic pavé bands enhance the round brilliant sparkle for even more light interplay
For a hint of luxury, consider diamond-accented rings featuring round or irregularly shaped stones — the perfect blend of sophistication and luster.
Oval Engagement Band
The elongated shape of an oval engagement ring provides flexibility for various band styles. Curved bands can follow the natural shape of the oval, creating a balanced appearance. A straight band or one with small diamonds can offer a touch of elegance while complementing the oval's sparkle.
The elongated shape of the oval is flattering to most fingers, and pairs well with:
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Diamond bands that curve
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Any band that is flush with the gemstones
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Thin, delicate bands
Let the stone carry the look, and keep the band delicate and graceful.
Emerald-Cut Engagement Band
Emerald-cut engagement bands feature clean lines and subtle sparkle. Choose a notched wedding band that fits perfectly with the ring’s shape to enhance this sleek style. A simple band can also provide a minimalist contrast, while a few diamonds on the band add a refined touch.
To keep your band aligned with the natural elegance of an emerald-cut diamond, look for:
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Flat, channel-set, or baguette bands
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Geometric finishes that stand out but mimic the edges of the diamond
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Contrasting bands that match the stone’s setting
Emerald cut stones are fun to play with in different settings. No matter which band you use, you’ll get a distinct finished piece. But their bold appearance needs a matching band, not a dainty one like the oval cut can carry.
Princess-Cut Engagement Band
Consider a band that complements the square shape of a princess-cut engagement ring. A contoured band that follows the edges of the stone can create a seamless appearance. A plain ring with gemstone accents can bring out the sparkle of the princess-cut diamond.
The modern, angular look of a princess-cut diamond needs a band that enhances its sharp edges. These bands pair well:
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Knife-edge bands with a minimalist finish
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Beaded or textured bands to soften the angles without erasing them
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Channel-set bands with clean lines
The key is to match your princess-cut with symmetrical surroundings that show off the details of the stone.
Cushion-Cut Engagement Band
Cushion-cut rings have a soft, romantic appeal. A curved wedding band that hugs the center stone can make an elegant pairing. You might also consider a wedding band with multiple diamonds to mirror the cushion shape, adding a touch of extra sparkle. Mixing metals can bring a modern twist to this classic look.
The vintage look of cushion-cut diamonds requires a band that complements it. Consider:
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Vintage-style bands to match the stone
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Curved bands that reflect the rounded edges of the cushion
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Detailed bands with geometric artwork that contrasts with the softness of the gem
Cushion-cut stones are ideal for both complementary and contrasting bands, depending on your style.
Pear-Shaped Engagement Band
The distinctive shape of a pear engagement ring pairs well with a notched wedding band or ring jacket that fits snugly around the pointed end. Curved bands are a popular choice in creating a harmonious look. With many styles available, you’ll be sure to find the perfect match.
Pears are naturally asymmetrical, making them ideal for bands that might not otherwise work with a softer stone. Try:
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Chevron and V-shaped bands that reflect the pear’s tip
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Mirrored accent diamonds or other gemstones
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Curved bands that copy the pear’s slope
No matter what band you choose, let it play up the asymmetry of the stone instead of dulling it.
Wedding Ring Styles
Choosing the right style for your wedding band is essential for creating a look that will suit your personality and complement your engagement ring. Each style offers unique characteristics to enhance various shapes and settings. Here are some popular styles to consider.
Stacked Bands
Need to level up your accessorizing game? Stacked bands let you layer different metals and designs, generating an original look that’s impossible to replicate. When stacking, consider mixing plain metal bands with diamond-accented bands for a balanced combination of simplicity and radiance.
Stacked bands tell your story and are popular because:
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They can be customized endlessly, from the metals used to the cut and gemstones
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There’s visual contrast and textured connection, including varied widths and different finishes on the metals
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They can be designed to be unified and cohesive or asymmetrical and contrasting
The stacked look creates a perfect wedding band for round or cushion-cut engagement rings, adding dimension without overwhelming the setting.
Plain Metal Bands
Plain metal bands are ideal for a minimalist look, especially when paired with an elaborate engagement ring. Despite their simplicity, plain bands can be customized in various metal types, such as yellow gold, white gold, or rose gold, to suit your engagement ring and personal taste. The classic appeal of a simple band ensures that your set remains timeless and elegant.
Metal bands continue to remain popular for many reasons, including:
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Their timeliness and versatility
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The effortlessness involved in upkeep and maintenance
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The cost-effectiveness of plain bands over gemstones
Because metal wedding bands are available in most shapes and styles, it’s easy to find one that fits your budget and style.
Diamond Bands
Diamond bands are an excellent choice for those who want to add extra sparkle. They can enhance the brilliance of your engagement ring.
These bands come in multiple styles, such as:
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Eternity bands with diamonds that surround the band symbolize endless love
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Channel settings for a modern, sleek look without prongs
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Pavé settings with small diamonds nestled close together for added sparkle
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Contour or nesting bands, designed to house your engagement ring to eliminate gaps for an all-in-one fit
Consider how the shapes align with the stones in your engagement ring when selecting a diamond band. Round or princess-cut diamonds are versatile and can complement most engagement ring settings, while more unique shapes, like marquise or oval, may require a more specialized band design.
Notched Bands
Bands with a notched design fit snugly against specific ring settings, making them perfect for intricate designs or rings with large stones that take center stage. The notch cleverly sets the wedding band alongside the engagement ring, preventing gaps from forming.
You’ll see notched bands available in many settings at reputable jewelers because they’ve become so popular due to benefits like:
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A seamless, custom fit that connects the engagement ring and wedding band
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Versatile choices that match most engagement rings
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Security with the snug fit to keep your rings in place
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Extra sparkle and dimension in the bands
Notched bands are often recommended for halo or solitaire settings. This design helps both rings sit comfortably together on your finger.
Contoured Bands
Contoured bands bring out the best in non-traditional engagement rings. The contoured design wraps snugly around your engagement ring, allowing the two to harmonize together.
What’s so special about these bands? They’re gaining popularity among women who prefer:
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A seamless, flush fit that unifies both rings to make them cohesive
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A band that can be customized to complement the engagement ring
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Stability for both rings to ensure they stay in place securely
By incorporating diamonds or meticulously chosen details that align with the engagement ring's design, contoured bands become an integral part of the overall ensemble rather than just an accessory.
Making the Right Choice
When selecting the right wedding band style, consider how each option complements your engagement ring and reflects your personal taste. For instance, a diamond band might add the sparkle needed to elevate a simple setting, while a plain metal band could balance a more intricate engagement ring.
When you address the most frequently asked questions about wedding bands, such as "What style best suits my ring's setting?" or "How do different diamond shapes influence the overall look?" can guide you toward a choice that feels right for you.
How to Maintain Your Wedding Band and Engagement Ring
Proper maintenance of your wedding band and engagement ring ensures they stay beautiful for years. Clean the rings regularly with a gentle jewelry cleaner or soapy water, especially if they feature diamonds or other gemstones. Use a soft brush to avoid scratching the metal.
Different metals and gemstones require specific care. White or yellow gold bands may need periodic polishing to maintain their shine, while gemstone settings should be checked for tightness by a jeweler every few years. When not wearing your rings, store them in a soft pouch or lined jewelry box to prevent scratches. Regular professional cleanings and inspections help identify any issues before they worsen, keeping your rings in pristine condition.
Making the Final Decision
Finding the ideal match for your engagement ring may take time, but a few helpful tips can make the process easier. First, think about the overall design and how it fits your lifestyle. Wear the band for a few hours to see how comfortable it feels. Consulting a jeweler for expert advice can also narrow down your options.
Consider where you'll wear the rings most often — daily or just on special occasions. The perfect wedding band fits your lifestyle and personal style while making you feel confident every time you wear it.
Valerie Madison jewelry is crafted with high-quality materials, ensuring you find the perfect match. With options ranging from contoured wedding bands and men's wedding bands to diamond-accented styles, you’ll find a stunning collection of wedding rings. Shop at Valerie Madison to explore a range of designs and discover the ideal ring to complement your engagement ring.
FAQ
Which ring goes on first: engagement or wedding?
When it’s time to add the wedding ring to the finger, tradition dictates that the band is put on first, followed by the engagement ring. This tradition stems from the idea that the wedding band is closest to the heart.
Do you need an engagement ring and a wedding ring?
Whether to wear an engagement ring or a wedding ring only, or opt for both, is a matter of personal choice. For most people, the answer depends on circumstances such as personal preferences and finances.
How do you keep a wedding band and engagement ring together?
Keeping your engagement and wedding rings together can be done easily by choosing the contoured, notched, or stacked bands or soldering them together to make a single ring. Temporary measures include using ring adjusters and spacers.
How long in advance should you order your rings?
Experts recommend ordering your wedding band 3-6 months before the big day to account for resizing and adjustments. For customized or engraved bands, aim for six months or earlier. Engagement rings should be in your hand 2-3 months before you propose to ensure you have time to add any personal touches or adjustments.
How do you know your wedding ring size?
The most accurate way to learn your wedding ring size is to let the jeweler measure your finger. However, you can do this at home accurately by wrapping a string around the base of your finger, marking the spot of overlap, and measuring the distance with a ruler. Then, compare that measurement to the standard ring size chart.
What stone setting should you choose for a wedding ring?
Your stone setting is a personal choice. Are you looking for sparkle, security, or budget? This answer will guide you to the best setting for your ring. Solitaire and print settings give you a classic and simple look, while bezel settings are ideal for the stone’s security. Sparkle and brilliance are found in halo and pavé settings.
Do engagement rings come with wedding bands?
Some engagement rings have matching or complementary wedding bands. You can choose to purchase these rings, which may also have a connecting partner option, or select standalone bands and rings. However, most engagement rings don’t have a wedding band by default; you purchase them separately.